Needs

After the small bump I decided we needed to have some together time with DtD and BF to bring the human touch back into the situation. I called him and left a message saying that we needed to hang out and could they go to dinner. M. had the brilliant and thoughtful idea to let them pick the spot because we'd picked last time.

We had the best time. We told stories. We laughed. Everyone was at ease. Finally.

Project Baby has been the elephant in the room whenever we get together: the THING that no one talks about. For the first time we managed to talk about it like it was normal. We got a lesson about the different levels of circumcision. DtD even offered some ideas on the equipment needed for insemination and offered to procure. We went over schedules. Amazingly enough, both he and I aren't working most of our target insemination week. And I know everyone has been holding their breath about this one: NO LUBE NEEDED.

Everything is really, really okay. M. has declared that she loves those boys. We know that DtD is going to be able to do what he's agreed to do. Everything was fantastically perfect. The contract will be signed later this week. All my fears about them backing out have washed away. The only possible delay will be getting the test results back.

We are back to being MADLY in love.

Does anyone know how long test results take to come back? We asked him to do HIV and other STDs and CMV.